Sort of. I’m not positive that text messaging should be counted as a move due to it’s ultra-lame factor. But being that he hasn’t been able to summon up the courage to do anything thus far, I guess it’s something.
So we had a class together yesterday, and during the entire class I kept getting looks from him and participated in mild flirtation. We do this pretty much every class though, so I figured it was business as usual. Then, about an hour after class he texts me
“Someone looked really sexy today…”
Woah. Alright. So I texted back, “Oh really? I didn’t realize you were into Everett that way.” Everett is our gay professor. After that I pretty much expected him to lose his will and end it but he texts back
“Haha. Don’t get me wrong. Everett is hot… But there’s actualy someone else i’m kind of into”
Hmm.
Okay. Thanks for finally just admitting it. But over text message? You might actually lose points for that. I don’t know. Then we proceeded to pose questions to each other like, who is it? and what about you? and blah blah blah. Until I said I wasn’t going to have this conversation over text.
I hate when people make such a production of this kind of stuff. Why not just ask me on a date? I’ll get it. This whole “I’m into you, are you into me, so we can be into each other” thing just puts so much pressure on it. I don’t want a relationship. I don’t want to be anyone’s girlfriend. I just want hot, passionate sex whenever I ask for it.
Is that so much to ask?
With Alotta Love,
zee zee cakes
February 13, 2009 at 8:23 pm
I don’t think that’s asking too much. I think it’s reasonable. You’ve defined what you want and don’t want in a relationship, even if it’s not a relationship by “normal” standards. Stop by my site sometime and say “hello” …
February 22, 2009 at 9:42 pm
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